Legacy – Should You Worry About Your Own Legacy? #64 #cong24 #legacy

Synopsis:

Your legacy isn’t really your concern because you may not be aware of the impact you have on others.

Total Words

970

Reading Time in Minutes

4

Key Takeaways:

  1. Don’t concern yourself with your legacy
  2. Focus on how you are with people and let them decide on your legacy
  3. Don’t regret the things you don’t do …
  4. Book the holiday!

About Pamela O'Brien:

Pam is a lecturer in the Technological University of the Shannon. She is also a mother, wife, daughter, sister and friend. She is not really concerned about what her legacy will be …

Contacting Pamela O'Brien:

You can connect with Pam on BlueSky or LinkedIn

By Pam O’Brien

Legacy …now there’s a loaded word! As has happened in the past with the themes for Congregation I have ruminated for many weeks over what this this means to me. This time around I keep coming back to the same thing and that is that your legacy is none of your business in much the same way that what people think of you is none of your business. So, this might be a very short blog post!

There are many definitions for legacy and the one I am choosing to place at the heart of this post is that which refers to the practices that have been handed down from the past. So, when I think of legacy, I think of the people who are no longer here and what impact they have had on me and others who knew them. So, what I really mean when I say that your legacy is none of your business, is that you may be completely unaware of the impact you have on others so focusing on your own legacy may be a little pointless. It is more important to consider how you treat people as opposed to how you will be remembered.

My dad died 30 years ago. To say that it was a traumatic event doesn’t even begin to acknowledge the huge impact that it had on my life and that of my family. He battled for almost a year before he died and watching cancer reduce him to a shadow of his former self was heartbreaking. My dad was a strong, independent, hardworking man who spent the last few weeks of his life unable to really move himself in the bed or even feed himself. He was 50. I can’t imagine being in his situation and yet he accepted it for what it was and allowed us, his family, to see the best of him in his last months and weeks. So the legacy from my dad is to live your life and do the things you want to do. It is often said, that you will regret the things you don’t do more than the things you do, so I have made it my mission to do the things I want to do while I can …

But that isn’t his only legacy. Dad was hardworking, family focused and a good friend to so many people and all of these things have been mentioned many times in the years since he died. I would like to think that these are the qualities that I and my brothers and sisters have continued on from both my parents.

My grandparents lived in the same village as I did for all my childhood years. I saw these grandparents almost every day of my young life and I am so grateful for that. Their legacy for me was a really strong focus on family. This was very evident a few years back when I attended my cousins wedding. Many of my cousins were also at the wedding and we all had a fantastic weekend catching up and having the craic just like we did over the years in my grandparents’ house. This focus on family prompted me to move closer to my family from Dublin when my son was 2 to ensure that he would get a chance to spend time with his family making memories and creating relationships that will sustain him, and subsequently my daughter, throughout their lives.

My mam is still alive and in writing this blog post I have been thinking about what her legacy might be, and I think it will be the focus on education that she has. She didn’t get a chance to attend secondary school like so many people born in the forties in Ireland. But she made sure that all of her children got the chances she never did. Graduation days from college for me were all about her and my dad because without them, and particularly my mam, I simply would not have been there. I am hoping that when my Doctoral graduation eventually comes around she will be there to share the celebrations with me … I just need to get a wriggle on and make the graduation happen now!

And finally, a blog post on legacy would be incomplete without mentioning Bianca Ni Ghroghain. Bianca was a teacher in the edtech community in Ireland that I had the good luck to call a friend. Those who knew her know the void she left behind when she died and yet her legacy lives on. Bianca was selfless in sharing ideas and thoughts on teaching and technology and her impact was brought back to me recently when I visited a school. The principal mentioned attending the ICT in Education conference in 2015, a conference I run for teachers, and meeting Bianca. He sent himself an email of ideas she shared which he told me he regularly returns to. I wonder how many others similarly return to ideas shared by Bianca over the more than 9 years since she died. There is a legacy!

24 Carat Legacy #41 #cong24 #legacy

Synopsis:

A little introspection goes a long way had we only the eyes to see it. I enjoyed (re)writing this piece the first seven times after that it became a matter of discipline, whether I made the finishing line or just took a wrong turn I’ll leave you to judge.

Total Words

449

Reading Time in Minutes

2

Key Takeaways:

  1. Starting from the end
  2. What do you see when you look back?
  3. Is this what you really want ?
  4. What am I so afraid of ?

About Tom'ORahilly:

Tom is self employed and revels working in diverse and creative teams. “It will eventually become obvious” and ” I’ll know it when I see it.” and then you have to keep on going. “The edge only becomes apparent once you go over it”

Contacting Tom O'Rahilly:

You can contact Tom by email or see his on with NLM

By Tom O’Rahilly

“There is none so poor that leave nothing behind “

Blaise Pascal

I like this and like it even more because it does not require more refinement but deserves more consideration.

If we are bound to leave something, then what will it be ?

In an age of superabundance, we are so resource rich that the emperors of Rome could only dream of the luxuries on offer.

Their decadence and glorified injustices were far removed from the reality of the masses, just as our lives are far removed from the labourers in far off fields and sweatshops. They may have kept their slaves behind bars we do it behind barcodes and brands.

As consumers, we spend much of our time online, willingly beguiled by images on our screens, like Tennyson’s Lady of Shallot we see the world not as it is but as a reflection of reality, The image of a fire burns coldly without the true warmth of another.

Basking in dreams of attainable desires we become hungry ghosts of our true selves. Like the Algonquin possessed by the Wendigo our hunger can never be sated and one by one its victims become possessed by that same hunger.

Emperors used vomitoria to eat beyond hunger, just as we are stimulated to consume beyond necessity. They promised bread and circuses to distract the mases now, after each show, when the lights go up, we push on past the rubbish afraid to stop and confront the mess and little by little it grows, pressing on that vital nerve of compassion.

Richly adorned with things we sit in ever more solitary splendour further and further removed from what really matters.

Our legacy to ourselves, when we gasp our final breath, did I love well ?

Legacy Indeed #33 #cong24 #legacy

Synopsis:

Legacy is all around us. We create it in all our interactions. Our thoughts, feelings and emotions inform the legacy we create.

Total Words

915

Reading Time in Minutes

4

Key Takeaways:

  1. People provide legacy.
  2. Small things are remembered more than big things.
  3. My mother made wonderful pancakes.
  4. You are a fine legacy indeed.

About Chris Reina:

Chris Reina has been involved in education since 2002, technology since 1981 and Making since 1971. (You do the maths). He is 1/3 of MakerMeet.ie – who deliver Maker-led, project-based S.T.E.A.M. workshops nationwide to primary, secondary, third-level and other institutions.
He feels passionately that education is the most important thing in the world and that teaching using Maker skills is the most rewarding job there is.
Chris loves cats, kayaking, kite-flying, steampunk, pedantic semantics and knowing the meanings of ligatures, aglets, gallibanders and lexiphanic.

Contacting Chris Reina:

You can connect with Chris via email, connect with him on Twitter (X) or see his work on Instagram and TikTok

By Chris Reina

I have been mulling over the idea of “Legacy” – mine, others, places and times. Engaging with legacy [usually] means long-lasting events or physical items left behind. However, I believe there is a longer-lasting type of endowment that involves people… one we all know and speak about with kindness, fondness, affection and love. Legacy.

This endowment is the gift of ourselves. Those small, seemingly insignificant moments where you held the door, made the joke, listened deeply, revealed a personal aspect of yourself or simply shared a point in time with another. For me – this is Legacy. Making a small and significant impact on others for the better. Grand gestures are amazing and appreciated, but we all remember even more deeply the times when people were good and caring to us. Legacy.

The human psyche will always hold the bad incidents and times that hurt us. These can lessen and fade over time but can also be further expunged when counterbalanced by considerate, thoughtful and tender moments of others. Legacy.

In my day to day life, I spend a large portion of my time dealing with people of all ages, backgrounds, ideas and experiences. I find during many of these interactions, I not only get a chance to make an impact, but very often people say and do things which push back my own hurt and bring a joy to me which make them all extraordinary learning experiences. Legacy.

This year has given me a wonderful opportunity in the form of a very rewarding part-time position. I help a generation of elders share their memories and stories of times past for all to see online. Through photos, documents, audio and video the elders create their content and are able to contribute remembrances to their local community, families and extended families worldwide. Legacy.

Many of the people I interact with daily may never know the impact they’ve had… and that’s OK. Gratefully accepting and acknowledging their humour, deeds or small moments not only helps me, but I hope encourages them to keep perpetuating those small moments. I wonder how many remember or even know what they have done for me? Legacy.

My mother has passed away (10 years ago this weekend in fact!) and I still speak and think fondly of her. While she could be difficult and challenging – her capacity for enriching others lives was exceptional (as were her pancakes!). I frequently consider how she might have handled an issue, felt about a topic or what advice she may have given me. This is the endowment she has left me – to contemplate, regard and be mindful of others. Legacy.

While I firmly believe in the power and capacity for change in people – it is a difficult thing to do… but I also believe in a “tipping point”. A time when an individual decides they will take the first step, say the hard thing, accept the challenge – all with an open heart and with no expectation of reward, just for kindness. Not always easy, but beneficial for both ourselves and those around us. Legacy.

I leave you with this poem I recently saw on TikTok:

Someone

Someone is still telling jokes they learned from you.

Someone is still using the phrases and words you used.

Someone is still listening to the music you’ve shown them.

Someone still smiles when they remember a moment with you.

Someone is still encouraged by the advice you gave them.

Someone admires you from afar and is inspired by you.

Someone learned how to love from you. They go about their lives maybe without realising how much of you they’ve kept with them.

It is there in how they handle things differently – in small choices they make or in the way they see things a bit clearer.

You might just be a memory on the surface, but underneath there’s more.

They remember your advice, replay conversations in their mind and find comfort in things you once shared.

They carry parts of you – your sense of humour, the way you saw the world, the calm you brought during chaos.

You’ve become part of who they are. Shaping them in ways that might seem small but matter deeply.

And while they may not say it, they’re grateful for it – you made a mark that lasts.

From: @momentary_existentialism

I leave you with this final thought:

You ARE the Legacy. A fine Legacy indeed.

LEGACY….. The Intangible Threads of Legacy #24 #cong24 #legacy

Synopsis:

This essay reflects on the concept of Legacy as often being associated with the tangible impacts a person leaves behind, such as buildings or financial donations etc. However, legacy can be far more profound and intangible, particularly through literature, art and ideas that transcend time and place, such as Eavan Boland’s poem “Our future.”, which commemorates women’s suffrage.

Legacy is viewed through the lens of personal and professional experiences and legacy is seen as instilling resilience, responsibility and a sense of justice. Legacy is about the enduring influence of one’s principles, beliefs and actions which shape the future and inspire others. It is a dynamic, evolving inheritance that we pass on to future generations.

Total Words

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Reading Time in Minutes

4

Key Takeaways:

  1. The concept of legacy has transformed over time and continues to evolve.

  2. Legacy within literature and ideas.

  3. Each of us has a role to play and a contribution to offer.

  4. Never underestimate the impact or influence of your personal legacy.

About Deirdre O'Flynn:

With extensive experience in education and guidance counselling, I have served on management boards, contributed to educational policy development, and created career and well-being programs for youth. My work includes authoring articles on guidance and well-being, part-time lecturing, and motivational speaking. Additionally, I facilitate mediation to promote communication and conflict resolution. Currently, I am pursuing a PhD, in Applied Psychology, focusing on legacy.

Contacting Deirdre O'Flynn:

You can connect with Deirdre on email.

By Deirdre O’Flynn

The concept of Legacy is often associated with the positive imprint one leaves behind in one’s personal or professional life. The word conjures up images of Universities wings, Buildings, Libraries, Bursaries, Scholarships, Achievements, Success, and even Respect earned.

In 1901, a wealthy businessman Andrew Carneige, a Scottish American industrialist, once said, ”that a man dies in disgrace, if he leaves millions of dollars, which he could have used to benefit mankind“. He donated millions to create 2,500 libraries in English- speaking countries, including Ireland. He gave his money away in a manner that mainly involved helping people to help themselves. In early 20th century, his libraries even reached lighthouse keepers who lived very isolated lives around the coast of Ireland.

As stated, Legacy, can often be seen in the physical, for instance, the naming of a University building. A most recent example of this in Ireland, is the naming, denaming and renaming of Trinity’s largest library, the Berkley /BLU now renamed Boland/BLU, after the poet Eavan Boland. However, I believe her poem” Our Future will become the Past of other Women”, commissioned in 2018 by the Irish Government and the RIA to commemorate the centenary of women’s suffrage in Ireland, is a far more impactful and transformative legacy.

 “Give me your hand, it has written our future.

Our future will become the past of other women”.

E Boland.  

* I recommend listening to Fiona Shaw’s narration of this poem.

Often, Poems, Books and Literature are timeless legacies, they transcend generations. They are limitless, in that, they can reach an infinite audience. They can cross borders and cultures. They can be translated, shared and passed on. They can inspire, instil values, share ideas and can even speak directly to us, no matter where we are….

Legacy when viewed through the lens of my roles as a daughter, a woman, a mother, an educator and an academic, each of these identities have shaped my understanding of what it means to leave a legacy, a lasting impact. Personally, I believe one of the greatest legacies, we can leave future generations, is one that equips them with the values, skills and opportunities to thrive in a complex and rapidly changing world. It’s about values, principles, resilience, fortitude, responsibility and ownership.

On a very personal level, it’s about inspiring women to believe in themselves, to challenge when something is known to be wrong, to stand up, to be counted.

“It’s better to die on our feet than live our knees”.

 Zapata  

However, legacies are not always shaped by our own actions, sometimes they are influenced by the actions of others. During a very difficult and challenging time in my life, I found myself entangled in a financial and legal nightmare, after finding out that my co director, completely unbeknown to me had accrued a substantial company and personal revenue debt and had forged my signature over 24 times on company accounts. Furthermore, he had forged my signature 22 times on legal documents over the course of 14 years. Adding to the gravity of this situation, the company solicitor falsely claimed to have witnessed all of these 22 signatures and on three occasions actually swore, that I was present at the signing of all these documents. All this was to have enormous implications for me both personally and professionally. Eventually, culminating in my attendances at High Court Hearings and Solicitors Disciplinary Tribunals, over a number of years

Outcome; I won this hearing and the Solicitor was found guilty on four counts of professional misconduct. The SDT was replaced by Legal Services Regulatory Services

“For those who find the rights they need

To be hard won, not guaranteed,

Not easily given, for each one a Talisman”

E Boland

During this time, a person once said to me on passing, that my children were my legacy….. I thought about this and smiled politely, but deep within, I didn’t totally agree with this. For me, legacy, my legacy was something very personal. My legacy belonged to me, it was about my good name, my values, my personal and professional reputation earned over years of hard work, commitment and dedication. To me, clearing my name was of paramount importance.  Even though, it necessitated me having to represent myself in the High Court and some of the other cases, I could not sit with not doing so .I knew it would haunt me until the day I passed…if I didn’t clear my name.  Furthermore, I owed it to my deceased parents too. I stood my ground,represented myself in the High Court and thankfully my voice was heard.  My legacy was about my values, my principles, my beliefs, ultimately it was about my relationship with myself.

To conclude, I believe, Legacy is not static, it’s a living, breathing inheritance of values, ideas, principles, even wisdom that passes as threads from one generation to the next, as they weave their own stories ….

Tomorrow’s Legacy Today #5 #cong24 #legacy

Synopsis:

. Using legacy as a trope for looking at more current events
. Considering wider cultural and societal impacts of legacy, maybe more so than more strictly defined personal motivations
. Building on an intergenerational trauma model to propose a newer, empathic, healing modality.

Total Words

735

Reading Time in Minutes

3

Key Takeaways:

  1. Move past the legal utility of legacy
  2.  Consider today and tomorrow, not just yesterday
  3. Legacy impacts can start as butterflies flapping wings
  4. But in starting small, legacy compounds!

About Alan Costello:

Climate venture capital @Resolve
Nature, biodiversity
Golfer!

Contacting Alan Costello

You can contact Alan by email or follow him on Twitter and LinkedIn or see his work with Resolve Partners.

By Alan Costello

Legacy. The origin doesn’t come from the word ‘legend’.
From the ‘auld latin – to legate, to send someone in your place. An Ambassadorial role. One who represents your interests.

I guess we often think about legacy as that which you leave behind, your effect on a thing. But its also current, what impact do you leave on those near and metaphorically near to you, now, today.
What are you doing now that creates legacy around you, that creates lasting impact that will impact on peers as well as future generations.

Of course, it could be bad legacy. You could be one of the people that balls’ed up Lough Neagh. Or voted for Trump. Or who indulged in whataboutery about this incident, this event, that war, and in doing so diminished good, fair thinking and decision making ability.

Or it could be good. You could be the one who led your Tidy Towns, who taught tolerance and independent thinking, who guided impactful innovation around you or you could be one who reached out a hand of friendship and support where it was needed.

Maybe you acted on one person or maybe you acted on millions. Your legacy, your impact, your resonance in the world is each and every persons own thing. I dont mean this in an egotistical sense, although it is related too.

Perhaps you think about creating little ambassadors, who follow in your footsteps. Thats usually true for legacy, although we probably increasingly recognise the choice to not do this, or the inability to have children to warrant an updating of that element of the concept of legacy. Propagating your genes or your name onwards – hopefully we might have begun to leave the pressures and foolishnesses of that in the past.

Leaving A legacy, the definite article of it, often refers to financial terms, leaving your estate to whomever you do leave behind. Is it large or small. Was it used purposefully while you lived. Will it be now that you are gone. Was that in your mind or that of Governments. Buffetts Giving Pledge comes to mind, and opens ideological questions too.

Another concept that comes to mind for me with legacy, is that of intergenerational trauma. I suspect this audience is likely more familiar with the concept. Where traumas have occurred, they can be seen through the parented effects on the next generation, which can further appear in later generations. We have seen this concept discussed in terms of the Troubles in Northern Ireland, of economic adversity in some regions and historically in the famine and its possible effects still held today. A study reported this week discussed the effect of early experience of bereavement leading to premature biological ageing.

I then wonder about what should exist by the same token, the intergenerational healing.

What would be the effect on future generations of our individual and cohesive efforts towards positive impacts on sharing different wealths to our direct and wider community.
Consider the Good Ancestor Movement.

I am minded, practised and desiring to consider scaling and global sized efforts.
When I think financial models, I think about leveraging to wider audiences through appropriate gifting.
When I think about community impact, I think about integration of global populations, of the built environment, of shared learnings, of the cultural and sporting tools at our fingertips
When I think about legacy, I think about our world, our planet, our nature, our peoples role as a living partner
When I think about impact, I might think about intergenerational healing and growth

Legacy, doesnt come from the word legend, but that doesnt mean you cant be one!